Welcome to Herogasm!

Please take a moment to read through some of the rules and guides, even if you have already done so before.

Our values Consent, Respect, and Communication.

Our Goals are Fun, Kink, and Community.

Fun comes first, and you can't have fun if you are uncomfortable. Do your best to make other people feel comfortable. Respect others, respect yourself, respect the venue, ask for consent, and don’t kink shame, and you will fit in perfectly!

HOSTS:
The Hosts can be identified by wearing Rainbow Bandannas
We are friendly and don’t bite, bring all concerns to us.

GUESTS
There is no obligation for anything; participate to your comfort level.

This is your experience, make it your own.

Boundaries: come with your personal and couple shared boundaries and triggers already identified.

(Bonus: know the difference between a rule, and agreement, and a boundary).

There is often a theme for each event, if you are unsure of what to wear, please reach out to the Hosts.

We promote healthy BDSM etiquette. Please respect the dynamics of others.

THE HOUSE SAFE WORDS:
Red: full stop, begin immediate aftercare.

Yellow: limit is reached; decrease sensation and pressure. Check in and proceed.

Green: enjoyment for each person

CONSENT
Consent is essential for Herogasm to be a safe place for people to explore.
Always ask before touching people, consent is the priority. Listen for an enthusiastic "yes".
When replying to an invitation, be confident in your answer.
This is NOT a free for all. Do not take rejection personally.

WRISTBAND SYSTEM
Green: open to being approached about different play;

Red: not looking for anything other than what I have.

- Note: you can change your wrist band at any time.

PRIVACY
We do not allow phones inside the venue. Please leave all devices in your vehicles.

-Please use discretion when meeting or seeing other guests in public. Respect their privacy.

SCENE RULES
Respect the scene: please try not to distract participants while the scene is ongoing. Wait until the scene is finished (and aftercare is complete) before asking questions or making compliments.

-Mind the bubble: voyeurism and watching are acceptable, but please make sure to not crowd the scene, or enter into the swing zone during impact.

VENUE

Respect the venue; throw trash away and do your best to prevent spilled drinks. Do not enter rooms with "off limits" signs.

Clean toys, and furniture after using. Leave rooms, spaces, items and furniture better and cleaner than you found it.

We support everyone in their journey to be authentic. However, we are unable to support illegal kinks, and do not currently have the space for anything Water Sports, Scat, or Blood play

-Cigarettes, and vape are for outside use only.

-No drugs or hard alcohol.
Herogasm is not the place to get drunk or to participate while high.

Now please have fun, make friends and get Kinky